The Boundary Self-Assessment

I have difficulty saying no or setting limits on people's hurtful behavior.
I have difficulty abstaining from taking responsibility from people's lives.
I have difficulty being easily manipulated or controlled.
I have difficulty managing my own destructive impulses.
I have difficulty hearing "no" from others and respecting their limits.
I have difficulty delaying gratification in order to accomplish goals and tasks.
I have a tendency to be attracted to irresponsible, hurtful people.
I have difficulty maintaining closeness and connection with others.
I have difficulty being honest with myself and others.
I have difficulty confronting others and resolving conflicts productively.
I have difficulty taking responsibility for my self (as opposed to having others take care of you).
I have a tendency toward addictive and compulsive behavior.
I have difficulty staying maintained, organized, and reliable.
I have difficulty following through on commitments.
I have difficulty making relationships work.